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Question :
I am starting out as a trainer by taking on some horses for a nominal fee in a large boarding stable where I keep my own horse. Because I'm starting out, I find myself having to cater to the opinions of the horse owners even if I don't necessarily agree with them. One thing I hear from time to time, in a barn of mostly female horse owners (I am a male) is it that the horse is afraid of men. Do you think some horses are afraid of men, or do they just have a nervous temperament?
Answer :
I also hear people speculate that a horse has been abused or is afraid of men (I can't use the latter as an excuse). It is always a balancing act in any customer service industry between catering to the wishes or beliefs of the clients and sticking to what you believe is right.
I question whether a horse is afraid of a man, per se, or the manner in which a person moves. Horses do have excellent memories. If a horse has had a bad experience he will be wary when that situation comes up again. Fear can be triggered by environment, smells and sounds from a unpleasant incident. This can be over – ridden by many good, safe experiences over a period of time.
So a horse may not be remembering the gender, but the person with a deep voice, or who moved in a certain way, or who used a twitch on his lip.
We always need to remember that horses are flight animals – prey, never predators. Consequently abruptness and aggression can trigger their flight response. People that move smoothly (don't confuse this with being wimpy) bring out the calm in a horse. I remind all my students that everything we ask of a horse is on a scale of 1 – 10. If you jump the scale, you surprise the horse.
We, as the herd leaders, need to be assertive and clear without being alarming, especially in the case of a sensitive horse. Horse gain confidence from predictable leadership.
Men tend to be stronger and heavier – even in the act tightening a cinch, or swinging up into the saddle. I regularly remind students (mostly men, but some women) to lighten up and slow down.
Although it's convenient to blame past training mishaps on gender, I'm confident you'll be able to set the record straight by operating in a systematic, consistent manner which will inspire confidence. Be careful to reward every right response. May your new training business flourish!
Question :
I recently bought my first horse. He is so easy going – he never spooks and I feel completely safe with him. The negative side is that he is so lazy, I get exhausted trying to keep him in a canter. Is there anything I can do to pep him up?
Answer :
Riding should not be an aerobic workout like riding an exercise bike. In order to have a more enjoyable ride and a more responsive horse, picture your horse within an imaginary box. This is a helpful image for any skill you are trying to teach your horse because horses seek freedom and you can show them how to get freedom inside that box. Self carriage describes a horse who maintains his pace, straightness and frame or outline when you lighten up on your aids. You're not really riding until you take the training wheels off!
When you ask a horse for a response to your aid (your hand, leg, etc) and he moves promptly in response to that aid, he should find immediate relief. If he doesn't respond, your cue should increase until he does. Let's apply this to your horse who doesn't want to go forward. As it stands now, you're squeezing, pushing and kicking until you're red in the face and he isn't bothered enough to do anything about it. The same quality you love about him that makes him unflappable and trustworthy also makes him unconcerned about your leg. If your leg represents the back of the box, your horse has become quite content to rest on it as he would on the butt bar of a trailer!
The trick is to "resensitize" him to your leg. After all, if a horse can feel a fly on his side, he can feel your leg!
First of all, use your leg in such a way that it is very uncomfortable to lean on. After requesting with a light squeeze and perhaps a cluck, whatever you have to do to motivate him, do it. This may involve reinforcing your leg with a dressage whip, increasing your spur size, lifting up your heel in order to lift up a roll of his skin, etc. Turn up the volume until he responds and the instant he does, be silent (remove your aid, drop your heel and soften your body.) I call this "squirting" your horse forward like toothpaste out of a tube. Once he gets the picture, you will be able to use far less "squirt" Maintaining the canter rhythm will change from "I can't take my leg off or he will fall out the back of the box" to "He contacts the back of the box every time his rhythm slows and promptly moves forward into freedom."
Question :
We are from the northern region of the province and there are no coaches in the area who specialize in my daughter's discipline of riding. Any suggestions to help her succeed in her riding?
Answer :
Although living away from the hub of equine activity can be a challenge, it is possible to map out a plan to suit your needs. The inconvenience and cost of travel to shows and training help is, no doubt, discouraging. Here are some suggestions that have worked for long distance clients of mine, and ideas from amateur competitors I've spoken with who come from remote locations.
It will take some initiative and perseverance for your daughter to excel without a local coach, but those are qualities that any parent would be happy to see developing in their child – it might be a blessing in disguise!
Question :
I've heard you say longeing is beneficial, but isn't just getting on and (trotting the bugs out) as effective? When longeing at a horse show, my horse frequently turns around on me, or is so distracted that I'm scared he might run into another horse. Also, isn't longeing stressful for the horse's legs?
Answer :
I feel very strongly about the positive effects of longeing, both for the horse and for the rider. It is worth perfecting the skill!
Focused and purposeful longeing is a great horse training tool, helping to keep you safe, and your horse, sound!
Question :
How can I have the quiet hands the judges are looking for in equitation classes? Mine bounce around. Are there any exercises you could suggest?
Answer :
More important than the look of still hands is the function of still hands. Your hands communicate messages such as slow, turn and flex to your horse. When the horse responds to your request, you respond with a reward, or pause in which your horse finds freedom. So, you see, you're always having a conversation of "no" and "yes" to your horse. Unsteady hands are like a background noise which drowns out your signal. Still hands are the result of elastic arms which follow the movement of your horse's head. Also, if your seat is bouncing in the saddle, you won't be able to keep your hands from bouncing, either.
The first step is to develop a deep, secure seat in the saddle. Learn to follow the motion of the horse. Try sitting trot without stirrups (no pain, no gain!) and concentrate on not locking your lower back and hips. Once you've mastered the shock absorbing action of following hips, it's time to work on those elastic arms. Try this drill: post with your fingers touching the mane or the saddle pad (whatever you can reach comfortably). With your hands in one place, you will have to open and close your elbow as you rise up and down. Your upper arm and shoulder will feel fluid. Now raise your hands a bit so they're no longer touching. Can you recreate that feeling of keeping your hands in one place? Do this every time you want to deliver a "yes" to your horse.
Question :
My gelding won't trot willingly beside me for showmanship. I don't have the strength to pull on him any harder and when I snap on the lead shank he tosses his head and stalls out. Once I get him in motion he is great for the rest of the maneuvers – turns, backing etc .
Answer :
This question is much the same as the previous one and once again you will use the principle of the "freedom box." When your horse resists coming forward you will inspire him to do so by dialing up the level of discomfort, and immediately releasing the pressure when he trots. Your timing is the key. Following are some DOs and DON'Ts.